Jory Wilson

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MY PERSONAL STORY

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That mantra kept generations of men in my family from taking a long look in the mirror and acknowledging that something might be wrong.  

 

The explicit words were never mentioned, but the meaning was always acutely understood.  The message of those three little words kept fear, sadness, depression, and anxiety on the inside. At the same time, anger, addiction, compulsive behavior, and isolation were on the outside.

 

After years of suffering in this shadowy isolation, I decided I had to try something different - or I would succumb to the disconnect between my heart and my body.  I would be destined to walk the earth as a shell of myself.

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I stepped out of the shadows and into the light… and everything came crumbling down around me. I left my career, my marriage was in flux, and I had no idea where life would take me next. 

 

That is precisely when I stepped through the doors of the man who would be my guide through the treacherous waters of rebuilding a life.

 

From that time to now EVERYTHING has changed.  I have obtained freedom from compulsive sexual behavior.  My wife and I are doing better than we’ve ever been.  We’ve welcomed the most precious, fun, and funny little girl into our family unit.  And I have become a guide through the chaotic and terrifying journey of recovery like my therapist, Alex, did for me.

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COUPLES COUNSELING 
 

Marriage can often feel like walking a tightrope, especially when addiction or emotional distance enters the picture. I know firsthand how devastating it can be when a relationship is strained by compulsive behavior, mistrust, or an inability to connect. Couples counseling is where we begin to unravel these issues—whether the source is addiction, trauma, or years of emotional shutdown—and work on rebuilding the bond that brought you together.
 

In our sessions, we don’t just focus on managing symptoms; we dig deeper to understand the root causes of disconnection. By creating a safe space for both partners to express themselves without judgment, we open the door to empathy and understanding. This process allows us to rebuild the foundation of trust and reestablish emotional intimacy, which is essential for true healing.
 

Couples counseling is not about pointing fingers or placing blame. Instead, it’s about finding a way forward together, recognizing that both partners contribute to the dynamic of the relationship. It’s a journey that requires vulnerability, patience, and commitment, but the rewards—a stronger, more resilient partnership—are worth it.
 

If you and your partner are ready to take that step, you don’t have to go through this alone. There is hope, even when things seem impossible. Healing is possible, and I’m here to help guide you both toward a future where you can thrive as a couple once again.
 

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INDIVIDUAL THERAPY FOR THE ACTING-OUT PARTNER 

While couples counseling is crucial for healing the relationship, it’s equally important for the acting-out partner to work on their own recovery. Addiction, whether it’s sexual compulsivity or another form of destructive behavior, often stems from deeper emotional wounds—trauma, shame, or unmet needs that haven't been addressed. In individual therapy, we go beyond managing the symptoms of addiction and work on understanding the pain that drives those behaviors.

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My approach is to help you break the cycle of compulsive behavior by identifying the triggers and underlying issues that keep you stuck. Together, we’ll develop healthier coping strategies that allow you to reconnect with yourself, your partner, and the life you want to live. This work isn’t easy, but it’s essential if you want lasting change—not just for your relationship, but for your own well-being.

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Individual therapy provides a space for self-reflection, accountability, and growth without the pressure of the relationship’s dynamics. It’s a safe place to explore the fears, guilt, and anger that often accompany addiction. By doing this work, you’re not only taking responsibility for your own healing, but also setting the stage for a healthier, more fulfilling relationship with your partner. The journey of self-discovery and recovery starts here.
 

 

MORE ON SEX AND SEX ADDICTION

The hidden world of pornography has reshaped how recent generations view sex and sexuality.

 

Due to the invention of the smartphone, among other technological advancements, what once was considered taboo has become normative in adolescent development.  

 

Like many aspects of society, what is deemed “normal” does not mean “healthy.”  Children as young as elementary-school-aged are walking around with unfiltered porn machines in their pockets.  High school and college aged individuals are foregoing the pursuit of intimate and sexual relationships in favor of digital, transactional, sex.  Men and women all over the world are finding themselves succumbing to the monster that is sex addiction.  

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Like any good monster, sex addiction consumes until there is nothing left.  It does not care about jobs, marriages, hobbies, relationships, or anything else other than feeding its compulsive desire for more… more intensity, more frequent, more destructive, NO MATTER THE COST.  If you are reading this then there is a high likelihood that you are familiar with this kind of monster.
 

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CERTIFIED SEX ADDICTION THERAPIST (CANDIDATE)

WHAT IS A CSAT?

Certified Sex Addiction Therapists (CSAT) are professionals who have taken supplementary training to treat individuals experiencing unwanted or compulsive sexual behaviors, or sex addiction.


CSATs take a deep dive into the root of the compulsive behavior, in many cases it is trauma, and provide a step-by-step guide to healing both the behavior and the wound it is protecting.

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There is HOPE!

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The man or woman caught in the web of sex addiction feels like they are drowning and they’re pulling their spouse down with them.

 

However, there are men and women all across the globe who have discovered the life raft of hope when there seems like there is none.  Healing is possible.  Reconciliation of a fractured marriage IS possible.  

 

I am one of many hands reaching out from the life raft telling you it is possible to breathe free air again.  It is as true for you now as it was for me several years ago.

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Specialties:

• Sex Addiction

• Internet Addiction

• Affair Recovery

• Trauma

• OCD

 

Clients: 

• Couples

• Individuals

• Teens

• Families

• Group Therapy

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Modalities:

• IFS (Internal Family Systems)

• Family Systems

• EFT (Emotion-Focused Therapy)

• Person Centered

• Trauma Informed Therapy

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License:

• ​Registered Associate Marriage Family Therapist, AMFT #145913

• Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, LMFT #53452

• Employed by New Path Couples Therapy Inc.

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